Saturday, July 31, 2010

Busy Busy Busy!

My family (The Velner side) was (and still is) in town for most of July! It was SUPER busy but a great time!


My brother Justin lives in the Czech Republic and I had not seen him for 2 years! He had gotten married in September and it sucked not being able to attend the wedding... but we did have a wedding reception for him here in the USA while he was in town! Kyan also got to meet his uncle Justin and auntie Ola for the first time.


My sister Karly lives out on the East coast so I only get to see her about once a year (however we do talk daily on the phone) It was great to spend time with her and her 3 kids!


While everyone was in town we were able to get some family pictures taken! My Cousin and his wife took all the pictures for us and they turned out AMAZING!

The Whole Velner fam!



Just the grandbabies






Karly, Paul and kids



Jake and Sherrie and Kids



Justin and Ola



Mom and Dad (AKA: Mima & Pepaw and Kim and Tom)

Jason, Kyan and Me (Fawnda)


This is why we have not updated in a while... we have been hanging out with family! :)

Monday, July 5, 2010

Happy 4th of July!











We hope your 4th of july weekend was great too! : )

Saturday, June 26, 2010

Some Pictures for YOU!

Here are some recent pictures that I have of Ky-guy playing out side!






These ones are from the Minnesota Zoo!



Wednesday, June 9, 2010

We are on THE List!

Our Home Study was finalized today and we are OFFICIALLY on the waiting list!

We decided to go on the GIRL waiting list this time. We were told that the wait time for a girl referral is 12-15 months and that wait time to travel {after receiving our referral} is 11 months. (You read that right 11 months.) Total predicted wait time: 23 - 26 months. That is MUCH longer than when we adopted Kyan.

For some comparison, here are the wait times for when we adopted Kyan:
Wait time for referral: 5 months
Wait time for travel {After receiving a referral}: 11 weeks
Total wait time until Kyan came home: 8 months

We are SUPER excited to be on the waiting list and we have to trust that God is in control of the timing!

Some other good news! We were able to update our home study with the same Social Worker that we had with Kyan's adoption. This was so great because we really like our social worker and it is great to continue working with her!

Question: How do you wait for 23 - 26 months for your baby girl?

Answer: One day at a time!

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

Where did my baby go?

It seems as if Kyan has grown into a little boy over night  It is CRAZY how fast kids grow up!

Here are some pictures taken today of my little boy playing out side!


I Hope that you are enjoying your day as much as we are! :)


Monday, April 19, 2010

My Monkey, Some Funnies and FaveCrafts Radio

My Monkey

Kyan has started to climb. I know that I am lucky that he has waited until now to start to climb, but I was kind of hoping that he would skip climbing altogether! He can get up on chairs, tables, stairs.... pretty much anything that he wants.
Here are some funnies from Ky-guy
Ky loves to pretend to drive. He will make any flat circle into a steering wheel. He also likes to sit in the driver's seat of my car {when it is turned off, parked in the garage} and pretend to drive. Yesterday as we were getting ready to get in car to go to church Kyan said to me: "Ky-guy Drives?" I did not think we would be having that conversation until he was 16!!

In the morning when Ky wakes up he yells "Mommy! Where are you?!" and he keeps yelling it a little louder until I go and get him.

Kyan has been getting more and more interested in Bathroom functions {pooping and peeing} He is starting to let me know after he as gone #2 {and sometimes #1} and will tell me when he wants a new diaper {he will say "Biapers Mommy?"}. I will often time check his booty just to make sure he is really poopy (because some times he is wrong). So yesterday, we hosted a couple of college girls for Sunday lunch after church. Ky-guy decided to "check" Jason's booty to see if he was "poopy?" "No sweetie, Daddy is not poopy." He then moved on to one of the college girls... "poopy?" She was sitting down so he was not able to really check {Thank goodness!} But we all got a good laugh about it!

Fave Crafts Radio
Yesterday I was interviewed on FaveCrafts Radio about my Fireflies and Jellybeans blog.
If you want to listen to the interview you can go to FaveCrafts Radio and click on the "on Demand" episodes on the player on the right side of the screen. I am the first person interviewed!


Wednesday, March 17, 2010

We did it! Finally!

We finished our paper work for the Reapplication for adoption! I dropped it off at our agency this morning! It feels good to have this part done!

Now we wait for them to match us with a social worker and they will call us to start our home study!

Friday, March 12, 2010

The Red Zone

I have to admit that I've let Fawnda run with our blog for a very long time, and this is mostly because she does such a great job at it. I thought that I would put together another post to give you some insight into the some of the things that bounce around inside my head (beside the mothballs, of course).

As of late, my life is being lived like I'm in the Red Zone. For those of you that don't follow football, the term "red zone" refers to the area on the football field that is within the opponent's 20-yard line. The Red Zone is certainly within field goal range, but the end zone is within sight, and a 7-point touchdown is always better than a 3-point field goal. NFL statisticians pay particular attention to any and all actions within the Red Zone, and I believe records are kept for it all. Most players on the offensive side of the ball get jittery once they pass the 20 yard line, because games are often decided by what happens within those 60 feet of the football field.

Maybe I should pause here. I should probably clarify that I do not feel that I have been put out to pasture, and that my respective share of the turf happens to be within the 20-yard line on some football field. When I say that I feel that life is being lived within the Red Zone, I am referring to a particular state of mind.

In regard to being the father of a two year-old, I feel that every decision and move I make counts. Do I plop down in front of the TV when I get home, or do I run around the house with a screaming boy on my back? Do I take a nap because I'm tired, or do I dress down to give a boy (who loves the water) a bath? Like I said, every decision counts. There are no do-overs, and whether you realize it or not, someone, somewhere is keeping track.

In regard to my Christian faith, I continue to press on toward the goal (Philippians 3:14). I really like this passage of scripture, because it refers to the energy that we must exert to keep a certain momentum going. It says, "forgetting what is behind, and straining toward what is ahead. . .". Don't you just love that? If we coast, we will certainly fall short when it counts. The decisions to exert a little energy could include such things like, doing devotions early in the morning or late at night (either way, it's not easy because you're tired); turning off the radio in the car and spending that time in prayer (I know, sometimes the quiet can be scary); or picking up a good Christian book that will certainly stretch your faith. Once again, it's like being in the red zone. I press on toward the goal, but every decision and move I make counts.

Anyway, I have been thinking lately about how life often requires the same mentality that it takes to be effective within the Red Zone, and I thought that I would post some of my random thoughts. Maybe it's because the Super Bowl was over a month ago, and I needed a good football fix, but I do believe there's some merit in living life like someone's keeping score and everything you do counts. Does this resonate with anything going on in your life? Or, maybe it is time to put Jason out to pasture? Leave me a comment, and let me know what you think.

Sunday, February 28, 2010

I'm going to work!

Kyan sat down on his truck with my boots on and a bucket and said 'I am going to work!"





Don't worry we did go and change his diaper after the video! : )